What might a man have become if his mother or wife had actually given him some love? Rove through the world and find some.
Don’t give up on love. Make it work. A man without love doesn’t amount to nothing but with it he does learn to be good mannered and is likely to say many silly things. Find your muse. Find the one who works to understand who you are and supports your growth.
Start taking care of yourself. Groom yourself every day. Get rest, get a good meal and exercise. How are you going to meet someone nice if you’re a slob? How are you going to connect with a spouse if you’re a shambling bag of potatoes? Throw out the junk food, and hit the road; do some miles in your new trainers.
Watch Good Will Hunting
From the book We Make Ghosts